Your senior engineer is right. In point of fact, senior engineers tends not to give an opinion if they are not sure. So I would say that there is some hubris on the way this was handled, and that this not belong to good decision making process. Please try to understand his point of view.
It works in a similar fashion than a natural draft heater stack.
At the tip, the pressure is atmospheric.
Let's say that the gas you are filling the stack with is methane. With MW of 16, the density is around 0.65-0,70 Kg/m3 depending on temperature (let's take 0.70 for this explanation)
Outside you have air, with a MW of 29, the density is around 1,2 to 1,3 (let's take 1.25 for simplicity)
Let's say that your stack tip is 50 meters above ground
Let's also say that you have a pressure of 100 000 Pa at 50 meters above ground (at tip's height)
The weight of air adds 1.25 Pa per meter. So at ground level your atmospheric pressure is 50 x 1.25 x g = 613 Pa higher than the pressure at 50 meters. That is 100613 Pa (*)
The weight of 50 meters of methane adds 0.7 Pa per meter. So at ground level, inside the stack you have 50x0.7xg = 343 Pa higher than the pressure at 50 meters. That is 100343 Pa. Actually it will be a little higher since you have to add the frictional pressure loss of the small purge flow.(*)
Both pressures are higher than the pressure at the tip, but the pressure inside is lower than outside. That difference is what you see as vacuum at ground level. It is about -270 Pa or a little more than an inch of water.
However, at the tip, the pressure is the same both for the gas and the air, and you should be OK if you maintain the minimum velocity recommended by the flare vendor.
Anyway, be aware that if you have any opening in the flare header (like drain points kept open, or a PSV removed for maintenance with a leaking thru block valve) you will have air air going into the header, and that this leak is not easy to detect.
(*) this assumes that in 50 meters the density and temperature does not change significantly.
Edited by Saml, 10 March 2017 - 02:24 PM.